Well I grew up outside of philly sooo... lol yea

 

Just to add onto Riwwp -

i believe that all people are passionate about certain things in their lives. One of which i know for certain are their beliefs. People who love each other can still have different beliefs and opinions which may conflict but that is where respect comes in to bridge the gap. These are all pillars that need to be in place in a solid relationship.

People grow up differently and people experience different things which cause disagreements. Being different is a beautiful thing in that we will never all be the same but it is also a curse in that we will not always agree. Embracing and understanding these differences are what helps keep some relationships going on strong.

In short - loved ones argue because of differences in belief - resolutions are found when respect is given and received. IMO, when someone says 'they love someone for their mind, body and soul' i always invisioned that this is what they meant.

 

But now, with that statement, you are falling into doing what society says "is the right way". Which, IMO, is a load of bull and people should feel free to just be themselves.

One must remember, the one thing that keeps a relationship healthy is sexual attraction. It is what the two in the relationship first experienced to even talk/give the other the light of day to start the "spark of desire". It is when (usually, of course there are always outliers) one or both start to loose that sexual attraction toward the other, is when one or both cheat on their partner. They are getting that desire fulfilled by other means (i.e. another man or woman)

 

That's not always true. In fact, most infidelity's can be related to not being emotionally fulfilled. Men go to other women who accept them for who they are and get that feeling they are missing in their current relationship. Women do so for missing a guy who is giving them their emotional fulfillment to listen to them and so forth. A lot of people think it's because of the sexual attraction lacking, but that's a small part.

If a relationship is based on sexual attraction, it will never succeed. Eventually it will fall. It takes work and you have to realize, the attraction will not always be there sexually not because necessarily that the other person doesn't look physically attractive, but because they're not getting their other needs met whether intellectually, emotionally, so forth.

Problem with this society is people cheat because they no longer feel sexually attracted to their partner and move on; that's a cop out. It takes work and the feeling of that attraction alike to feeling of love comes and goes. Don't think in a perfect relationship it's always there, it's not. Sexual attraction should be a result of clicking with the individual, and love being the overseer of the relationship. Without the latter, it's never gonna last and without the first, it's opening doors for them to look elsewhere because of the root cause being their other needs are not met.

 

I agree, everyone should "be themselves", the problem is, no one is actually and truly extreme. Those that think they are are simply resorting to extreme measures trying to be seen/heard/noticed. (or have some level of mental issue)

I actually think that society is too accepting of "extreme", and that "reasonable" and "moderate" is too frequently what is shunned as taboo. Although at the same time, conforming is what is sought after.



For example, last year in a department meeting, we went around the room, everyone telling the department something about themselves and what they like to do in their spare time. 90% of the people said "work on my house or yard". A few were extreme sports fans to the point of actually losing their temper over disputes with others that like opposing teams, and while that generated comments and smiles, more than the yard work, it was accepted. There was shocked silence when I said that I love auto-sports and track racing, and that I was seeking to do more of it. The VP quickly moved on to the next person.

Why is hostile extreme sports fan acceptable but controlled, sanctioned, and heavily regulated autosports not? If I had said "wrenching on my car", that probably would have been more acceptable, though hardly different.

You had to be actually extreme, or love yard work.








My train of thought took a left turn at Albuquerque.... I have no idea where I am any more.

 

Can anyone help me i just got my rx8 and im browsing for good ideas for a good body kit for it any ideas?? plz post pic thanks everyone = )

 

^look around the exterior modifications forum. There's a sticky thread.

 

Have you checked the Appearance subforum at all?

Perhaps you missed the body kit thread where it has pictures of every body kit made for the 8?

 

Wow, socal lounge currently has more non-Californians than Californians! lol

 

All body kits look lame. Stock is the way to go.

 

if your going to go with anything though get this.

 

lol please post pics...pshhhhh who do you think we are? theres a subforum for that type of ****

 

dozerrrrrrr teh noob wants YOU to do teh work

and i technically am a california mami, just transplanted in texas, so i can post here lots



and lots





whenever i wannnnna

right dozer????

 

you can post lots and lots of pics

 

I just closed my eyes and laid my head on my keyboard almost fell asleep...

gawddamn i'm tired..

 

i have been you gotta come to the trio's thread to see em tho

 

didnt you peace out like 2 pages ago?? lollll napz FTW



have a great weekend cali boys,
this little mami is out till monday

 

What color nuts should i get??

Linky: http://www.evasivemotorsports.com/me...tegory_Code=L1

i'm stuck between purple, green or possibly titanium.

 

Fixed....

 

green

 

Fixed*

 

Atilla, assuming you are getting lugs with one locking lug (16 regular, 4 locking) your only choices will be T1r Purple extended locking or Project Kics R40 NeoChro.

I want the T1r purple so I say go for the kics NeoChro! :P

 

i missed a serious convo :[




paris if your looking for lugs jlb motorsports has alot of those, they are local and hook it up, it doesnt hurt that they always have huge inventory in stock


i paid 80 bucks for my caliber 24 project kics were most sites sell em for 159

 

So um.... did you see the post about the guy that paid $1,300 for "flashing engine cel and misfire, compression tested fine and all is well after replacing coils, plugs and wires"?
And Another $2,200 for "My RX-8 flooded on my after a 20 min drive and it cost me $2200 to get it running again after plugs, starter, battery, labour, this, that..."
https://www.rx8club.com/showpost.php...9&postcount=96


um...yeah.

 

lold