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Old Aug 26, 2009 | 02:20 AM
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gotta pay to play

If you know you're headed down that road for 1 purpose (p*ssy) then get in and get out ASAP. No emotion, no ties no strings. Treat it like a bank robbery, in and out w/out a trace and no looking back.

However if you plan on setting forth on a long endevour i always highly suggest setting out parameters. Not like formal guidelines, but let them be aware of your dislikes...not like aware...i guess...what i mean to say is BURN IT INTO THEIR MINDS of what your dislikes are. Let them know up front so that way when they do cross it...you can remind them, guiltfree.
part A contradicts being a good guy

part B is too much work
edit: I thought about my past experience. If you play the knight in shining armor, by the time you realize you played that role (after all, it wasn't intentional) the girl has already reached stage 3 clinger.





Strong independent chicks, eh? You'd be surprised how many girls who look especially strong turn out to have an extra load of baggage.
Old Aug 26, 2009 | 02:21 AM
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Old Aug 26, 2009 | 02:21 AM
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Old Aug 26, 2009 | 02:22 AM
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Originally Posted by mike[piston eater]
luckily ive never had a clingy girl but maybe cause i dig strong independent chicks
Kinda funny, i think i may have stumbled upon something as of recently.

Dig this...

if you naturally have a strong personality with very strong beliefs that you can support and defend w/a persuasive nature - people who have strong personalities some times bend to you - sometimes making them clingy because they feed off of you.

Kinda trippy but i'm noticing this with some life long friends. I'm noticing that when your presence is strong in someone's life - that person more or less lives life with you as their inhaler, so to speak. They can live w/out you, but they don't...

dunno if anybody else has more to add to this but it's just something i've been noticing
Old Aug 26, 2009 | 02:24 AM
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yeah its like when you graduate hs ohh were all gonna stay in touch a month later your only left with like your 5 best friends
Old Aug 26, 2009 | 02:25 AM
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Originally Posted by tiltmode43
part A contradicts being a good guy

part B is too much work
edit: I thought about my past experience. If you play the knight in shining armor, by the time you realize you played that role (after all, it wasn't intentional) the girl has already reached stage 3 clinger.


Strong independent chicks, eh? You'd be surprised how many girls who look especially strong turn out to have an extra load of baggage.
Part A: true - it was just an observation, not that i've ever done that in my years

Part B: yup, no argument there

Stage 3: some people like a clinger...some people like being wanted - not everybody tho...heh

independent chicks - couldn't agree with you more
Old Aug 26, 2009 | 02:27 AM
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turn the question around have you guys ever been hung up on a girl?
Old Aug 26, 2009 | 02:27 AM
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Old Aug 26, 2009 | 02:27 AM
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Old Aug 26, 2009 | 02:28 AM
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Old Aug 26, 2009 | 02:28 AM
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Old Aug 26, 2009 | 02:28 AM
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Originally Posted by Atilla
Kinda funny, i think i may have stumbled upon something as of recently.

Dig this...

if you naturally have a strong personality with very strong beliefs that you can support and defend w/a persuasive nature - people who have strong personalities some times bend to you - sometimes making them clingy because they feed off of you.

Kinda trippy but i'm noticing this with some life long friends. I'm noticing that when your presence is strong in someone's life - that person more or less lives life with you as their inhaler, so to speak. They can live w/out you, but they don't...

dunno if anybody else has more to add to this but it's just something i've been noticing

Wouldn't this just mean those who appear strong aren't really when it comes down to it; They would, more so, be shaping their 'beliefs' or views to what seems socially accepted or yearned for, no? If one is truly independent, anothers' beliefs or ideals may rub off but wouldn't really take place of or mold that person's own beliefs.


I somewhat agree on the concept, I think its another way of observing it. IMO it often depends on the persons sense of independence. Some seem to need others to lean on, some seem to be able to make it on their own just fine. Leads down the path of "Any childhood traumas?" and psychological history.

Atilla, you're a smart guy :icon_tups:
Old Aug 26, 2009 | 02:28 AM
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Hi Red Forks! Great way to break the tension in here!
Old Aug 26, 2009 | 02:28 AM
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Remind yourselves never to get a chinese girl. They are on a whole nother level of clingy.
Old Aug 26, 2009 | 02:29 AM
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dude i'm so duede hahahahah
Old Aug 26, 2009 | 02:29 AM
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Originally Posted by mike[piston eater]
turn the question around have you guys ever been hung up on a girl?
yup...one.

Her and I are finally talking after almost 10 years of silence. She finally admitted to saying the reason why she's talking to me is because she's finally forgotten why she 'hated' me.

I told her i haven't forgotten. . .

. . . but when i began to remind her, she said she'd rather not remember

I said cool

Old Aug 26, 2009 | 02:29 AM
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HEY **** yo rneseesis i'll *******....i'lll **** what was i gona do?
Old Aug 26, 2009 | 02:30 AM
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Its been too long since I've been fucked up, nearly a month!!!
Old Aug 26, 2009 | 02:30 AM
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hes gone ignore red forks
Old Aug 26, 2009 | 02:30 AM
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Kill me for calling you Red Forks?
Old Aug 26, 2009 | 02:30 AM
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Originally Posted by Red_Fox
HEY **** yo rneseesis i'll *******....i'lll **** what was i gona do?
So i hear they call you red forks, eh?
Old Aug 26, 2009 | 02:31 AM
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Originally Posted by mike[piston eater]
hes gone ignore red forks
You wanna know the definition of gone? Look in the mirror after you pound a 211.
Old Aug 26, 2009 | 02:31 AM
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Old Aug 26, 2009 | 02:32 AM
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fcck that **** dde i had so much tongiht lol we were plahying ******* red band i mean rock bannnd and we were ******* hammered at my hgose a couple of friends and i it was aweksome
Old Aug 26, 2009 | 02:32 AM
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happenin place, 9 users
Exactly, it's the SoCal Lounge, the baby I gave birth to, nurtured, and grew.

Look how big it is now.


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