It Lives!!! I've been following everybody's trials and tribulations trying to get them to work. While mine is still torn apart, it works wonderfully. Tomorrow I start stuffing wires back under the dashboard.

I went with the Neo ice plus, it has an extra RCA input which I used for the audio of the XM 'go anywhere' radio. (I have mounts for the radio at home and work so I usually take the radio with me.)

Advantage: sounds good, cheap and easy
Disadvantage: Can't control radio from steering wheel and should pull IPod before listening to radio

Pictures to follow when digital camera is working again.