I'm so over stupid shit! i just want it all to go away and everything to go be good! People always have to have others to blame shit on-and i'm not much better, i deff. fall victim to this, but dam, why cant some peopel just take responsibility for being a royal bitch and why is that girls have to try to make other girls jealous or mad..i just don't get it. My goodness.I'm so over dumb girls my age and dumb people my age in general! why can't they just all grow the fcuk up!? GRRRRRRRR

How hard is it to admit when yo'ure being dumb! I admit it all the time-and i admit when i'm wrong (mostly but it shall never be documented. lol) and i know me. and why is it that people have to go, "you're just fcuked up in the head" what the hell kind of cop out is that?! I mean, why can't some people just accept that things change around different people bc some people can put you in a really crappy mood eaier than others! ugh!!!

I'm sure they'll read this since they're nosy little bitch's that have to know everything going on in my life-but seriously...give it up!

*phew ok end mini-rant*

Love you.

Big hug...

morgan, there comes a time in your life when you realize...some people are just jerks and its not worth associating with them. You're too good to hang out with those people.

He is right. You should hang out with us.

Morgan what specifically surprises you about people? People live lying to themselves or as if they have to pull others down so they can move up, get better, etc…this is a common human character flaw.

You are young (well I am too...lol, but your younger) and sadly the realization of how this place is and how people are is a sad time in life. Over time people grow hard or cold because of the way this world works, and that’s really sad. With time you will learn to deal with it. Remember that alot of these people who mistreat others live bitter and sad lives. Their only joy is to bring pain to others. The thing is...this is not enough for them so they just continue the cycle until bitterness is all they know and they grow dead inside.

I personally tend to use the FOCKERS methods...the circle of trust, lol. I simply do not allow many people into my life or to grow close to me because of seen friends let me down, so I’m very careful now. Honestly besides my family there are only about a handful of other people (friends) that are in that circle. I'm not saying it's a good thing to close yourself off but be very careful who you let in. It’s sad to hear stories like yours but be careful so you don’t fall into stress and hardships in your life because of the faults of others. At the same time remember that non of us are perfect so we all have to excuse at times the errors or faults of others.

These people are not your family...so who cares what they think or what they want to do to make you upset, simply cut them out of that part of your life and move on.

Sadly...the worst thing people now a days are plagued with is the lack of remorse and taking responsibility. Also...it's like a bad word now a days to say sorry, I messed up, I apologize. Then people have the gall to get angry at you because they expect you to forgive them without an apology. They demand a higher moral ground from everyone other than themselves.

So...what you are doing now is realizing it, it happens...it's sad but that's how the world is.

Just put a couple of drops of Visine in their drinks and rest assured they won't be feeling well for a while. :D

Over the course of my relatively short life, I have come to realize that some people (no matter how good their intentions) have a nack for bringing me grief and frustration. Life is too short for that.

In any given relationship You need to compare the positives against the negatives over time. When the negatives start to outweigh the positives, then it's time to re-evaluate that relationship.

Spend more time with the people who bring you positive energy. You will be happier.

I got a quote for you that my dad used to always say when I was younger:

I am responsible for what I see
I choose the feelings that happen to me
I decide on the goals I wish to achieve
What happens to me comes from what I believe

Pretty deep but true if you think about it...

Morgan, I hate to break it to you, but it doesn't get any better. Y ou either learn to deal with it and ignore the morons, or you let it get to you.

here is a quote from my grandfather...

Do not get married..the F&^&* you get is not worth the F&^& you take.

Totally off topic, but profound none the less.

I was like, 3 when he said that.

Perry was the guy!

^ hahaha I like that one

Trust me. I'm with Elara on this. It doesn't get any better. Most of my friends are a select few older people that can comprehend the "bigger world". I'm so sick of people crying because some little thing happened. I'm not insensitive, just tired of people thing the little things of "the here and now" matter so much...

On second thought, fuck it. Its to much to explain how life "really works". Either people understand it or they don't. Don't waste time with the idoits.

Maybe this is why I'm still single. I'm too picky now...
At least I realize I'm an asshole.

Just put a couple of drops of Visine in their drinks and rest assured they won't be feeling well for a while. :D
DO NOT DO THIS! Unless your intention is to seriously injure or kill someone, don't try the "Visine in the drink" trick. Visine does not cause diarrhea, but it does cause all sorts of other nasty side effects which can lead to death if swallowed.

http://www.snopes.com/toxins/visine.asp

Morgan,

I learned a long time ago that you can't please everyone all the time and you can only please a few some of the time. Just be yourself! I'm sure you're an awesome person! Live by my rule: I'm comfortable with who I am. I try to be fair. If you like me...fine. If you don't...stay away from me. That attitude has really showed me who my TRUE friends are. All the rest can go to hell.

Take care!

;)

Hmm, well there goes my friend's credibility again. I'm vindictive, but not that crazy. :p

Life is what you make of it. You choose who your friends are. You choose what you do for a living. You choose who you're going to marry. And you choose what makes you happy and what doesn't.

There will always be people whom you encounter that will piss you off, lie to you, stab you in the back, etc. You will also meet a lot of good-natured, fine, upstanding individuals as well. You cannot allow the actions of a few idiots to cloud your judgement. Every situation is different and needs to be handled as such.

Anger and emotional management is key. If I got pissed off everytime someone didn't use their turn signal, left a grocery cart three feet from the cart return, threw trash out their car window, used "your" for "you are" instead of "you're", or talked through a movie, I'd have died from a heart attack or been thrown in jail by now. Being sensitive or even emotional is one thing, but you cannot not let it bother you to the point where it rules your life.

Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering. Wise words from a wise puppet. ;)

And if none of the above makes sense, just keep this in mind:

Fuck 'em. You were living before you knew them, and you'll be living long afterwards, too. :D

lol....ah, master Yoda...lol...that was funny! Sounds like Yoda is Christian...lol!!!!!

Anyway, I agree with Madronin...don't waste your time on the petty or tempoary or else you will have a breakdown. I think you are just in the begining stages of realizing the mess this world is filled with (and in the lives of people).

I can offer you joy unspeakable...but that would get your thread closed for preaching. Be glad that you wake every morning and remember that this life is short, there is no need wasting it on the petty and tempoary.

Live in NYC for a while, I've learned to hate everyone around me, even complete strangers. Either you learn to manage it, or it consumes you. Yesterday, this French tourist asked me how to get to 5th avenue. When he spoke to me, he kinda spittled me in the face. While unpleasant and fairly gross, I did not get angry or anything. I merely gave him the wrong directions. It's little things like these that help you deal. :D

haha, i love ya'll. The advice i recieve is always helpful and funny. It's great. :D i <3 you guys!

this thread is false advertising if morgan doesn't provide a soundclip of her 'roaring' :p :o

RAWR!!!

Luft...we need to talk, LOL...you got some issues...LOL!!!!

Morgan...it will be OK, have a great day!!! GOD BLESS!

You're a nice young woman with a good head on your shoulders Morgan. You seem outgoing and very personable. I'm sure you would have no problems finding better friends. Some of it improves with age, but for some people it doesn't. I had plenty of friends like that growing up. I ended up just not calling them or hanging out with them and stuck to the friends that I knew were genuine. Now I have several friends that I would jump in front of a speeding train to push them out of the way of.
Making friends is easy, if keeping them isn't easy and just drags you down and hurts you then they really aren't worth being friends with.

DO NOT DO THIS! Unless your intention is to seriously injure or kill someone, don't try the "Visine in the drink" trick. Visine does not cause diarrhea, but it does cause all sorts of other nasty side effects which can lead to death if swallowed.

http://www.snopes.com/toxins/visine.asp
Weird. I just read that Snopes article, and I believe it, but it's strange, since eye drops wind up in your mouth anyway, don't they? (I mean, there are ducts connecting the eyes to the sinuses, which is why crying gives us a runny nose, right?)

My daughter had a similar experience recently. I explained to her that people come into our lives for a reason, and sometimes it's to teach us what a friend is NOT. Drop 'em from your life, Morgan. If you let them get to you, they win.

Gosh, today is LOVE day at rx8club...good work everyone!

Edit: Wait, cept for Luftwaffle...he has revenge issues...lol... :p :D :p

I'm passive agressive. :D

Weird. I just read that Snopes article, and I believe it, but it's strange, since eye drops wind up in your mouth anyway, don't they? (I mean, there are ducts connecting the eyes to the sinuses, which is why crying gives us a runny nose, right?)
I can definitely feel them in my nose and throat when I use them, but I guess it's not a full dose or something.