Would you consider it stalking if..... You find one of your ex-girlfriends from High School e-mail address online?

I was just looking through some of my things and found a card from her. I typed her name in Yahoo and it came up. Would that be bad to e-mail her? If so to late I did :D

i love stocking up on extras. how bout stalking. yah that sounds creepier.

oops didnt even notice that lol thanks

depends why you're emailing her I suppose, and how you left each other. But, generally, yeah thats creepy.

I guess the bigger question really is, if you email her, what is your desired result? What is it you want out of making contact?

You didn't do it from a laptop and a wireless card outside her house with a "I see you" in the subject line did you?

My mother's boyfriend is in the CIA (really) and they went to high school together in the 50s. For years after her divorce from my father, she was alone, never even dated. This guy tracked her down somehow and they met, and they have been together for the last few years.

She couldn't be happier. It seemed sort of creepy to me at the time, but hey, whatever works. :D

I just wanted to see how she is doing. We split on good terms. Just wasnt sure if that would be considered stalking. :)

It's not stalking to look someone up and say hi. It's bad if someone flatly indicates no wish for further contact and you keep bothering them.







(wait, wait a minute. guys are supposed to block each other.)

Yeah, that's stalking.

I had an ex-girlfriend try to get in touch with me last fall. We had dated for 6 years but have been appart for 8 years. She only had my brother's phone number and called him. He (in his infinate wisdome) gave her my new phone number but told her that I was now married.

She never phoned which is sort of good since I don't think that my wife was too keen on my ex calling me.

How do I feel? I guess that I'm sorta proud that I have a lasting feeling like that on someone.

Would I really want to talk to her? Probably not since we didn't leave each other on good term.

It's only stalking if you two broke up on bad terms, and she told you at that time to leave her alone and never contact her again. If, as you say, you broke up nicely (as oxymoronic as that sounds), it's not stalking if you just email her to say hi, how ya doin, how's life treating you?

However, if she does not reply, DO NOT email again. If she replies and says she's not interested in continuing to communicate with you, DO NOT contact her again. If you do, then it IS stalking.