This is turning out to be a horrible week, or mid week shall i say.

1. My rx8 is missing, it was "stolen" by my sister who hasn't come back for a whole day, (not to mention the dent my mom put in it on tuesday, due to old asian women driving WAYS!)

2. My boyfriend of two years dumped me because he's gay,
- and it is now just sinking in... im stil dumbfounded, in awe,
im having trouble registering this!

So i think that, im not as troubled as a ishould be.

- oh yeah, my cat just bit me, ahh everybody hates me!!!

this all happened yesterday!

I don't hate you. In fact...I love you dearly.:D :D

Post some more pics of you. You'll feel better, I promise.

i look horrible, i look like im in a permanent trance.. But not.. you see...
- i've surrounded myself with gloomy bears<--(japanese toy bear.) and a parts catalogue complete with all the kit you can get for the rx-8, but its not working.

kits kits , and i can't spell!

Sad RX8_ML. You'll get over it in no time. You're still so young and have got so much to look forward to. The experience will make you a greater person, that's for sure.

RX8_ML, you will be fine, I promise.

Are you still coming to the July meet?

Just write everything down thats bothering you. Then say "F*** you" to every one, 1 by 1.

Then go get some icecream. All set!

What if she writes Genom down? :)

hotpot - she's still 17. winningblue is gonna yell at you too!

RX8_ML sorry to hear of your woes. hopefully your sis will return your 8 soon. it breaks my heart to hear that you got jacked by your own blood!
so your car fixing bf was gay? wow. um.... i dont know what to say to that.

here is a picture of a cute cat to make you feel better. and a cookie. you can't see the cookie, but i assure you it was moist, hot from the oven, and very delicious.

Have I acted inappropriately in any way?

oof thats a tough week, but hey your next week has got to be better than this one. the rx8 will turn up don't worry...let me tell ya though, i wouldnt blame yourself for the boyfriend turning out gay, its his loss really. you'll land on your feet, you're a very attractive girl, if i do say so myself, and the future should bring you someone better...healing takes some time but it will get better...reaching out to your rx8 community is the right thing to do ;)

Just remember, you didn't turn him gay, he already was that way. He was just too immature and underdeveloped to come out.

This is not a reflection on you, its a reflection on him and his character. You will be better off in the long run because of this, trust me.

As for your car, install a hidden kill switch so that next time no one but you can start it and drive off with it.

I just did a search on those gloomy bear things..those are pretty neat. As for your gay guy problems, just take it as it comes and talk to friends about it. Friends can work wonders.

Originally posted by RX8Bliss
hotpot - she's still 17. winningblue is gonna yell at you too!

i'm gonna pretend i never read that...

anyways, it's better off you learn of his gayness now before it really got out of hand and you guys were really close...imagine getting up to your wedding day and at the altar he 'realizes' he's really gay...how would you feel then? you're still young, you still have a lot of hearts to break, and one day you'll find that handsome charming man when you least expect it...and that man is me...how you dooooin'? ;)

Thank you all for the support,
woo kitty. lol

oh and yeah i'll still be coming to the meet, hopefully my car will be back by then!
how does that kill switch thing work?, She took my keys.:(:mad:

-To be honest with you, yeah im 17 but i've just gotten so tired of dating you know? I was trying to go steady. Just my luck.I wouldn't be surprised if my dog was GAY!:(

so, hmm...you're attracted to gay guys then? :P

Beware of BRx8 though. He might still be in the closet.

Originally posted by hotpot
Beware of BRx8 though. He might still be in the closet.

that all depends on if she likes gay guys or not

Originally posted by RX8_ML
Thank you all for the support,
woo kitty. lol

oh and yeah i'll still be coming to the meet, hopefully my car will be back by then!
how does that kill switch thing work?, She took my keys.:(:mad:

A kill switch will prevent anyone from starting the car without it switched to the ON position, ireguardless of having the keys or not. This can be wired into your ignition rather easily.

Originally posted by RX8_ML
-To be honest with you, yeah im 17 but i've just gotten so tired of dating you know? I was trying to go steady.

Trust me, the grass isn't much greener on our side of the fence. We all have been there and we all know how you feel. It does get better though.

maybe thats it.. im attracted to gay guys.. lol i do find them quite adorable. Maybe i was blind, and didn't see it.

- Haha its okay lol gay people are cool! just not when you get dumped by one who is just now letting people now that they are!

Even If I was gay I would never have dumped you. You seem too lovable to hurt.

but then you also gotta look at it in his shoes...he's gay, he can't help it...he's attracted to guys instead and it has nothing to do with you...imagine how hard it is for him to admit to people he's gay considering being gay isn't really the most accepted thing in today's society...it's better for him and it's better for you...

look at it this way...at least you didn't catch him with another girl...wouldn't that be a lot worse?

BRx8, you should have been a therapist. You've got it in you.

yea i should probably charge her $250 a half hour for my time, shouldn't i?

Originally posted by BRx8
yea i should probably charge her $250 a half hour for my time, shouldn't i?

off topic but am I correct in assuming that your signature is some form of protest to the new forum rules? I haven't read all the forum rules, but if I had to guess, somewhere in there they limit signatures to 7 lines?

Originally posted by Winning_BlueRX8
off topic but am I correct in assuming that your signature is some form of protest to the new forum rules? I haven't read all the forum rules, but if I had to guess, somewhere in there they limit signatures to 7 lines?

no it's not a protest at all, i think all the rules are pretty fair...i'm just being stupid as usual

Originally posted by Winning_BlueRX8
off topic but am I correct in assuming that your signature is some form of protest to the new forum rules? I haven't read all the forum rules, but if I had to guess, somewhere in there they limit signatures to 7 lines?

My signature is a protest, and has been since I put it up months ago.

Originally posted by BRx8
no it's not a protest at all, i think all the rules are pretty fair...i'm just being stupid as usual
You're so gay. Ooops I'm being stupid too.

hey hey hey now there was no talk of paying! lol

look at it this way...at least you didn't catch him with another girl...wouldn't that be a lot worse?

-yea... but i keep thinking that he's just using that gay excuse, to go easy on me... ...(because im a big cry baby)
and he's just gonna go on and find another girl
- how clever.... hmmm

Originally posted by BRx8
no it's not a protest at all, i think all the rules are pretty fair...i'm just being stupid as usual

d'oh. I see. I liked the old one better, although I never got to see the 650 K signature that the phantom mod did not approve of.

Originally posted by RX8_ML
-yea... but i keep thinking that he's just using that gay excuse, to go easy on me... ...(because im a big cry baby)
and he's just gonna go on and find another girl
- how clever.... hmmm

No self respecting strait man would use this as an excuse. A strait guy would be too afraid of rumors getting started amongst his social groups and with his friends.

Originally posted by RX8_ML
-yea... but i keep thinking that he's just using that gay excuse, to go easy on me... ...(because im a big cry baby)
and he's just gonna go on and find another girl
- how clever.... hmmm
Only you can judge whether he's really gay or not. Maybe he's Bi. If he's using that as an excuse, then we'll gang up and kick his butt.

Originally posted by Winning_BlueRX8
d'oh. I see. I liked the old one better, although I never got to see the 650 K signature that the phantom mod did not approve of.

that thing was awesome...it was actually 2 100X100 gif images that i created to use as an avatar but were too big for that too...one was a miniature RX-8 transformer transforming and the other was a collage of the transformer posing...i uploaded them to a site that renames everything to a xxxxxxxxxxxx.jpg and linked it...so when the mod removed it, i got upset because i lost the links to the 2 things i worked so hard on

Originally posted by RX8_ML
- i've surrounded myself with gloomy bears<--(japanese toy bear.)

Sorry to hear about your troubles. Gloomy bear is cool... got one here on my desk... guy from work brought it back from his trip to Japan. :D

Originally posted by RX8_ML
-yea... but i keep thinking that he's just using that gay excuse, to go easy on me... ...(because im a big cry baby)
and he's just gonna go on and find another girl
- how clever.... hmmm

you're just being insecure because of the breakup...anyone that has just gotten broken up with will become insecure for a period of time, especially once it's kicking in...what you should do is take a step outside of your circle and look at it from another perspective...do you really think he's the type of person to do something like that? do you really think he's gay (they all have certain tendancies, some are more flamboyant than others of course), do you think he'd risk word getting out to all your common friends that he's now out of the closet?

i think if you think long and hard about it, the answers would probably be no

Originally posted by RX8_ML
-yea... but i keep thinking that he's just using that gay excuse, to go easy on me... ...(because im a big cry baby)
and he's just gonna go on and find another girl
- how clever.... hmmm

It's ok to cry and be sad/angry, to a point. But you shouldn't torture yourself over whether or not he is really gay. Either way, it's over. I know how horrible it must feel to end a relationship after 2 years, and if this guy was your first love, then the pain is even worse. But I promise, time heals. Everyone remembers their first love, and their first breakup. It's tough, but we all go through it (most of us, anyways). Try to keep your mind off him by hanging with your friends, take up a new hobby, stay busy, anything, and the pain will become more and more bearable as each day passes. You'll be a stronger person in the end.

you have apoint, AH and its even more depressing than the last. hmm reality check for me

you'll feel a WHOLE lot better if you just post up some pics of yourself...trust me

Originally posted by RX8_ML
you have apoint, AH and its even more depressing than the last. hmm reality check for me

Yes, it's a reality check. It HURTS! It hurts a lot! But the more you drag this out and torture yourself, the LONGER it will hurt. You have my sympathies, believe me, but it's you that will have to deal with the pain. You've got to realize you're a great person. Some people will realize this, and some will not. You must realize this because if you don't, then you'll be too afraid to give your heart away to the next guy you meet. But having said that, don't give your heart away so easily ;)

you'll feel a WHOLE lot better if you just post up some pics of yourself...trust me
lol haven't you seen enough pictures of me already. goodness lol

Originally posted by RX8_ML
lol haven't you seen enough pictures of me already. goodness lol

girls in your situation need some compliments...actually any girl loves complements...trust me, you post some pictures up, you'll have 100s of complements in no time...just check out the Kari pics thread :D

RX8Bliss will be all over that thread! :p

Chestation.

hahah!! hmmm in that case. I wanna make myself a thread like that!

Originally posted by RX8_ML
hahah!! hmmm in that case. I wanna make myself a thread like that!

the cheering up shall commence!

i think that would be kinda conceited though.

Originally posted by RX8_ML
i think that would be kinda conceited though.

don't worry, it's already been done

Originally posted by Winning_BlueRX8
RX8Bliss will be all over that thread! :p

Chestation.

i KNEW you'd say that.

Drive up to plano this weekend. I'll gather as many people as I can and we'll all go out and have a good time...

first you need to kill your sister though and get your car back.

I don't think I will try to top this thread title today lol

I think this would make a good rap song though

Missing Rx8, Boyfriend wrecks
My car nice and shiney
My bf likes men's heinies

Sister took my ride
Now she try and hide
And me all alone
While my ex tokes on the bone


Word

Wow, that really has been a tough week on you. x.x I'm sorry that happened! I can totally imagine how you feel though. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now, so imagining if that were to happen to me, I'd probably be devastated. x.x But you seem llike a tough cookie! :D We're here for ya tho! ^^

yea that was a pretty dumb idea, sorry about that :(

oh *patpat* its alright

Don't worry bout the gay thing. Its just better if you can play for your own team.

Don't feel bad ML. My ex had a boyfriend (NOT ME) who turned out to be gay. Well actually, in fact, almost every guy she went out with turned out to be gay. Looks like someones "gaydar" isn't working properly (Shelley).

Damn those gay guys get all the chics.
..j/k..

If he ends up moving into a townhouse in Hyde Park near Montrose and Westheimer, he's definitely gay. Watch out for that.

BTW: Did you get the car back?

Well, I am sorry to hear about your wek as well, but, it can only get better now, right? Your sis will return your car... You can spend more money on kits for it... You can go cruisin for guyts and not care now wether they notice or not, cuz no bf to get jealous over it... As well, you still have a long life ahead of you for all the wonderful things to happen to you... Just beware the internet stalkers your gaining...

hey guys, the reason WHY gays get all the chicks is cause GIRLS JUST WANNA HAVE FUN! its not fun to be pressurred all the time for sex. sometimes we just wanna party, sex not included. i know guys can not relate to that concept. plus gay guys are alot of fun and generally do not have so much inhibitions that other guys have. im being real general and sterotyping based on previous experiences.

Any luck finding the car?

not only am i avalable, but im also straight:):):):)

Any luck finding the car?

argh, no . I should just start looking forward to the white rx8 i will HOPEFULLY be getting to replace the one i wasn't responsible for loosing!

not only am i avalable, but im also straight
haha thats good to know. lol two thumbs up:p

Originally posted by RX8_ML
argh, no . I should just start looking forward to the white rx8 i will HOPEFULLY be getting to replace the one i wasn't responsible for loosing!



you seem pretty tolerant. if that were me i wouldn't be chatting on an enthusiats board....I'd be out hunting my sibling down and when I find them.... I'll be opening up a can of whoop ass

i did that already, and it solves nothing... besides my parents threatened to "call the cops " if i tried to do anymore damage to my sister! all i can do is sit and wait... :( depressing, i've asked around, nobody knows ANYTHING.

Originally posted by RX8_ML
i did that already, and it solves nothing... besides my parents threatened to "call the cops " if i tried to do anymore damage to my sister! all i can do is sit and wait... :( depressing, i've asked around, nobody knows ANYTHING.

ic... but if shes the type of person to do something stupid like this, why do you even make it possible for her to take the car? keep the keys hidden or always on you somewhere.

When I was younger, I always hated it when "older" people said..."When I was your age..."

But.....I am a bit older than you and I will say these two things.

1. In the big picture, 5, 10, years from now, it won't matter what he did. You will be in a better place in your life because he isn't around. I have been there, done that, and burned the
T-Shirt....many times.

2. His loss.

so your sis doesnt even know where she left it? or what did she do with it??

because i have no reason to hide anything! nothing like this has ever happened before, besides i didn't know my sister was coming over. Well i've learned now.

her story: she says, she was drunk, she asked a guy to take her home, she thought that he was gonnaget pickedup by his friends after he parked the car, after she got out of MY car he drove off with MY car, my sister didn't even know the guy.

Originally posted by RX8_ML
because i have no reason to hide anything! nothing like this has ever happened before, besides i didn't know my sister was coming over. Well i've learned now.

ok...our parents have forbidden you to kick her arse... So whats their opinion of her doing this? Do they plan to do anything to protect your best interest? Because they seem to be bent on protecting her. Don't tell me they are the type to favour one over the other.

Originally posted by RX8_ML
her story: she says, she was drunk, she asked a guy to take her home, she thought that he was gonnaget pickedup by his friends after he parked the car, after she got out of MY car he drove off with MY car, my sister didn't even know the guy.

WTF..... How "F"ing irresponsible and retarded can someone possibly be??? How old is your sister? 6yrs?

I'm sorry to tell you but you may very well never see that car again. Hope you filed a police report.

they are, well my mom is my dad has always been on my side.. but to save the marriage my dads obviously siding with my mother. My mother and i haven't really gotten along. My parents say that my sister has to help pay for the new rx8, but i dont know how thats going to pull through. I dont really understand why im so calm about the whole situation... maybe its because i have this feeling that my 8's going to be returned to me..

i did FILE A POLICE report!!! a day and a half later, shes 18

Originally posted by RX8_ML
they are, well my mom is my dad has always been on my side.. but to save the marriage my dads obviously siding with my mother. My mother and i haven't really gotten along. My parents say that my sister has to help pay for the new rx8, but i dont know how thats going to pull through. I dont really understand why im so calm about the whole situation... maybe its because i have this feeling that my 8's going to be returned to me..

hmmm. I'm sorry to say this ML but it looks to me the your getting HOSED in your own house by your own family. They say shes gotten help pay for the new 8.......you and your family may be total strangers to me but I highly doubt thats gonna happen... just watch.... I know how shit like this goes down.

ahhh i was trying to be optimistic! thanks dreamer :(

Originally posted by RX8_ML
ahhh i was trying to be optimistic! thanks dreamer :(

Hey man... just trying to keep you real. It does no good to sell you pipe-dreams in a situation like this as it is completely out of your hands.... you did all you could do

I don't mean any disrespect but your sisters got NO SENSE..... She steals your car, gets hammered, gets a stranger to drive her home, as this guy is a stranger he could have raped or harmed her, and then she gets out of the car without taking the keys and watches this guy drive off in a car thats not even hers to begin with. WOW.

I've heard of some pretty stupid things in my life time thus far.. and have been guilty of dumb shit as well (nobody's perfect).... but I have to say that this story ranks pretty high in the stupidity spectrum.

To be on the optimistic side though, unless the car is getting shipped out of the country right that night, its gonna be a lot easier to find than a civic, so, it will show up, but on the pssimistic side, in what condition?

I personally think that your sis should be helping with ALL the new 8 if it isnt returned, and if it is returned, then she should cover the damages and loss of value as well.

In the long run though, if you love your sis, it is a forgivable thing, simply due to the fact, it is family, and they arent replaceable, but the car is, even if it takes your sis 20 years to do it, she can replace it :)

did you also inform your insurance?

My condolences for the loss of your car. What an awful situation. Too bad you don't have Lojack.

Sometimes another's issues can help put your own problems in perspective. My good friend called me last night to tell me she killed someone. I thought she was kidding but she actually did - she hit a guy on a motorcycle. Death is final. Your boyfriend and car are not. Hotpot is right about time and getting over it. So is that Razpewton creature - whew what an avatar.

umm let me try to ask this delicately since you are 17. in your sig it says you are missing your 8 and ...another item. did you sister take those too?

you should file theft charges against your sister. did you report it to your insurance? does your sister have insurance? the ins. company will want to wait for 30 days to see if the car is found. the only car i ever had stolen they found on day 33, before the check was cut, completely stripped. you insurance in you have total coverage will cut you a check to pay off the loan if not found or if found they will pay to repair it. then they will go after your sisters insurance to get their money back. if its not found they wont get you another car just pay the loan. so then you have to file a suit against your sister for re placemnt of the car- that is the only way she will ever "help" you pay for the replacement.

Are you bored zoom44 for bumping this thread? ;)

What ever happened to RX8_ML? I tried looking for her at the last Houston RX-7/RX-8 Club meet. Fall off the face of the earth? :confused:

rodsterin is the one that bumped it i had really never seen it before. i would like to know whats happened since july.

hi you guys.... :(

- i've been away for a while haven't I... just been busy with school

been soo depressed <-- my parents did replace the car.. but with the wrong one!!!
=( Celica ! can you believe this?

oh well, since i didn't have an rx-8 anymore, and wont be having one till a while
i also didn't think i should post on here anymore :(

We all miss you!

you're always welcome no matter what car you drive. althought the celica is pushing the limit:)j/k. hows school going?

She can always put rx8 badges on the celica :D

Thats got to be good for a 10hp reduction :p

you're always welcome no matter what car you drive. althought the celica is pushing the limit:)j/k. hows school going?